"No, they match word for word, except for the part where you insert your full name sans any titles. But, look, you're not Barrayaran. You don't have to take them seriously, and I won't make you take them seriously. If for some reason you wanted to get married all over again the Barrayaran way, with the groat circle and the witnesses and Seconds, and then ignore the literal meaning of the vows and go have, I don't know, ten mistresses and five boyfriends on the side - I'm not saying this would be my ideal married life, but I wouldn't try to stop you. I wouldn't consider it a, a breach of honour, I wouldn't go crying to Father for a divorce. Although adultery does technically provide a legal basis."